Becki Kostesky

Becki was one of the first ever Abandon Experiencers and one of the first to join from Canada. Her group was also the only one to go out of the country for their experience. In that time, Becki not only went through the exclusive Purpose Curriculum but also served at a local orphanage. She is now a regular mentor/leader for current Abandon Experiences. Read her info & advice below.

Describe your / an Abandon Experience in a couple words!

Life Accelerator. HOPE.

Why did you decide to mentor for The Abandon Experience after your own? 

I was tired of meeting adults who had no idea what they wanted their life to be about! They were wandering around aimlessly when they could be changing the world! It really struck a chord with me, to not become that and to help others do the same!

How has your new-found perspective on purpose, abandoning, and everything in between, affected your life today?

That everyday I have the choice to embrace it, explore it, ignore it or change it, and does that choice help myself/others to experience the life changing message that is Jesus.

What advice would you give someone considering an Abandon Experience and looking to discover their purpose?

Life is short- stop overthinking, get on a airplane and join an abandon experience and don't look back! I promise you won't regret it.

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What is your absolute favorite part of it all?

The deep instant connection that this group of complete strangers develops instantly. 

The most challenging part?

For each of us to stop searching for something, and to start creating something.

The most rewarding part?

Seeing abandoners stop being afraid of what could go wrong and to start being excited about what God can do right!

What are some personal goals you hope to achieve in the near future with your purpose in mind?

I hope to continue working with Three to Abandon. I would also love to Travel to other parts of the world in order bring the Gospel there with a group of friends or like minded individuals! I love to see and help people become equipped to make a difference!

A little more about Becki:

Becki describes herself as: Spontaneous, Informal. Realistic. Adventurer. Straight-shooter! In a normal day, she's either busy showing houses to "the best clients in the world" in the Ontario, CA area, playing hockey, or teaching her nieces to how to get into trouble!

She lives by the idea that, "When I am meant to die, I’ll die, doesn't matter if I am bungee jumping in Tanzania or laying on the couch watching Netflix at home, so I may as well make my life epic!"  #TrueAdventurer #Faith